Working in Collaboration Environment

Recently everyone is talking about collaboration working environment. It is so easy to tell people to work collaboratively but it is not easy to apply it instantly. Everyone can shout out saying "lets work together!!" but does it work? I seriously don't know.

I just feel that now a days, everyone is fighting with each other for own benefit. Everyone is blaming each other to cover themselves. Everyone is quoting individual person names instead of saying "WE/OUR". Instead of working together they have total sub a task to another team and when things screw up they pointing fault on the team. Is seriously very demotivate when you are working in this kind of environment.

How do you feel when 1 day a manager tells you where you are just at an executive level "hey, i will inform the management that you asked me to do this". Do you feel stupid working with this manager? Is the manager telling me that I have the right to instruct him to do the task?

One of my senior management always tell me "please think first before you do. Always ask yourself is this decision correct, can it be proceed, what are the pros and cons, always ask why". But sometimes I feel that why are people working blindly. They always say just follow the instructions. Why can't I asked for more details?

I am trying not to make myself ended up like a useless manager but, when you start seeking for more details, some managers will feel offended and they will feel being threaten. OMG!! I feel so frustrated.

Where is the collaboration practice if everyone is just following blindly without discussion and everyone is blamming each other once things screwed up. What is more sad if things being screwed up, in my opinion, we should solved the problem together, but mostly people will find out who should be blamed. Why must be blame each other and complaint about each other.

So, how and where is the collaborative culture? Searching.. searching..

Life Is Too Short To Be Waste

Was shocked when I heard that my uncle pass away on 23rd June 2014. The news come too sudden that I feel so unbelievable. How can a person life being so unpredictable. Today he is fine, tomorrow he is gone. We will not be able to see him again. We will not get to talk to him again. It strike my mind that, I thank God, thank God for still protecting my family. I will appreciate the moment with them.

Why should we kill each other in order to climb higher and by using all the dirty trick, you start to create enemy and everyone start to hate you and avoiding you and hope that you will disappear from their life. Life being hate by others is really bad. What a life.

That is the reason why I always choose to have a simple life. Simple and peaceful life. I believe with simple and peaceful life will lead me to more happy and clean life. I know in this society everything is very realistic, what people always say is "No Money, No Talk! Got Money, Sweet Talk". So, if I need money, I earn it with my handwork. A clean money with my clean heart.

I always tell myself not to be greedy. The only request I asked from God is please let my family to be healthy and let me have a happy family till the end I end my breath in this world.

Life cycle

Negative World, Negative Society, Negative Environment

I always have been wondering, why are people killing each other for own benefit. Why are people bad mouthing other people to get credit for their own. Why can't everybody help each other and live in a harmony and quite life. Why must they create all this negative environment. The worst part is, own family members is the one creating the negative surrounding. I not sure is it my problem , but I always believe we have to do the right thing and be responsible with what we are doing.

Am I too naive? When I have done something, I never ask for a return or a credit. What I want is to see the other party  is happy and satisfied with my work. In office environment, people always like to chase for credit from bosses and always tried to show bosses that they are doing their job. Worst case, they will start to bad mouth other colleagues in order to get credit from bosses. Some people  always tell me "Hey, present your work to management, show them you are doing work". Sorry to say, I never want to do that, because I always believe, I don't have to show my bosses I am doing my work intentionally! If the bosses are a good leader, they can feel it. If the bosses don't trust me, I have no choice, is their mindset, I can't force bosses to believe and trust me. As long as my heart is clean and I do my job with my sincere heart, good leader will found me and will allow me to go further. Some people say I am too naive, however, I do still believe, good leader will found me if I continue doing good. I believe God will always protect me from negative people.

In family environment, sorry to say, just like the story line in the Taiwan TV drama, everyone is killing each other to get the benefit. Worst part is, they start to bad mouth own family members to obtain sympathy in order to win their dirty game. I always believe, what goes around comes around. What ever they have done, it will effect on them in near future. It might not happen now, but I strongly believe, it will happen in their next generations. They will have to pay back what ever they have done.

Sometimes, I do always ask myself, why don't I do it as well, since everyone is doing it, but, I thank God, who I always believe they are around me telling me not to follow the bad steps. Always remember what goes around comes around.

 

 

Completed another marathon run

Finally completed another year of Brunsfield marathon run. Last year I got 10th place, this year 9th place. Improving.

I never like sport when I was young. I never thought of one day I will love running. I start running or exercising since 2 years ago. I love the feeling while running with my music on. It makes me feel nice, relax, and in another world without worries.

Like I always said, I prefered a simple life. Running makes me feel simple and fun. In the same time makes me healthy too. Got a certificate of achievement..

Family Relationship vs Career

If you have to choose between family and career which one will you choose?

My answer is always family. I will let go anything for my family. I always prefer to choose simple life. Career is important too but what is life without family love.

I just want to work happily and learn as much as I can because there is still long way to go before I stop working. If everyday I'm thinking about how to go one step higher or how to get superior attention to get higher position, my life is going to be miserable.

Love what you doing and you never going to work a single day. Everyday is a new chapter, why spoil the day with unnecessary issue.

I do appreciate whatever I have now because I have everything I need. I have a perfect daddy and a great mummy, I have 2 funny brothers and 1 cute dog and also I have a lovely boyfriend who always trying to make me laugh with his childish way.

What else I need? Money? Wealth? Popularity? Branded item? Nop! I don't think I need those. Maybe I need enough money to cover my living. That is all I need.

-the love of a family is a life's greatest blessing-

Good Heart; Clean Heart; Pure Mentality

Time flies, my one day leave gone. Took leave to clear some banking matter. Manage to resolved the matter and tomorrow will have to go back to work. Luckily is just half day.

I start to feel tired of pleasing someone, sorry to say I feel very scared of the person that I have to pleased because I not sure what is the next step and what the person will do behind my back. Back stepping me? Talk bad about me? Quote my name on something bad? I am seriously very worried and I am praying for miracle now.

I don't even dare to open my mail box as I'm very worried about what he is going to say in the emails. It makes me feel more tired and that is why I choose not to open. I think I will have to go office slight early to go through all the emails and list down things to do. Sometimes work is not very tiring but pleasing someone which is very sensitive is tiring. 

Can't wait for my daddy to come back from Africa. I hope things will be better once he is back. As usual, family is always the best as they are the one which have good heart, clean heart and pure mentality towards you. I don't have to worry being attack. 

-I love them very much- 

Why Killing Each Others For The Sake of Achieving Higher Level

Sometimes I seriously don't understand why corporate world have to be so scary. I always asked myself, do corporate world suits me? I really don't understand why people have to killed each other for the sake of going higher levels. Holding higher positions does it really so important? I am kind of frustrated sometimes because I couldn't take it. I always believed that as long as I love what  I am doing and achieved something at the end of the day, that is more than enough. Why do I need to kill others for the sake of getting higher management to praise me. I feel it is very stupid and immature way of working. 

I always believed that if I am treated others sincerely, others will be good to me as well. However the outcome is vice versa. People tend to take advantage on me. They used me for other purpose. My objective in corporate world is to learn as much as I can so that I will have more skills and knowledge. NOT FOR GOING HIGHER LEVEL! I don't have to tell the whole world what I have done and how good am I. Others will acknowledged my skills if the outcome is positive. I don't have to betray my ethics to get respect or praise.

If there is any mistake done, admit it and try to solved the problem not blame it on others. Pushing around the world will not solved the problem, it will only create bigger problem. 

So, from now on, I will just make sure I be extra careful in corporate world because not many are sincere. Most of them area very scary.

- Life is Short, why not enjoy every moment with each other than killing each other. Things will be different if everybody think the same way-