Lesson Learnt! Cruel Society

Last week Wednesday I caught in an accident in my college parking/driveway area. I had a very bad experience and I also feel stupid to allowed this to happen. After the accident, I had called my bf, and he told me to take down every details of the car owner and make sure I stay firm never step back. Thereafter, I called my car wash tenant to double check on the car condition, he told me the same thing, which is to take down all the details and to be firm in order to protect ownself. If there  is no intention of the other party to compensate, go report police. 

The stupid me did not listen but after seeing the girl was panic and shaking, I pity her  and was so stupid kind to her by telling her is alright, we will settled on our own since I have checked with my mom and she told me the same. The more stupid of me is I did not even take down her number plate. I just drove off after both agreed to settle on own. I was alright till the next day when the lady text me telling me that her father wanted me to pay for the damage which I told her I won't pay a single cent because I have sent mine to polish and is all done. she insisted and threaten me that she want to do police report. 

I asked my tenant and my superior about how to handle this case, they told me to just ignore her. If she will want to report, just asked her to go ahead. Police will not do anything, but for my understanding, if the other party went and report, and i did not report, the fault will be on me. After 1 week the incident happen, I did not know if the lady went over to do the report with traffic authority, my mom did not received any police car and my insurance company did not call me. However, I am still very worried about this incident. I could not blame anybody but myself for being stupid and too kind. 

Both my bf & tenant was scolding me for being too kind. However, I seriously feel very sad because I did not expect the return for being kind is being attacked. This world is seriously very cruel. I have learnt my lesson and I also promise myself, in some situation, you have no choice to be bad and cruel because some people will just take advantage on your kindness. I don't like to be bad, but in order to protect own self, I have no choice. I still believed in Karma. What goes around comes around. She will get her punishment one day. 

-amitabha-